School For Seduction

Seduction vs. attraction. Let’s face it. There are so many guys who think that attraction is the same as seduction. They use these terms interchangeably without realizing that these are two different concepts.

One mistake most guys make is to assume that one automatically follows the other. It doesn’t. You have to know that these are different concepts. Being aware of that fact will save you a lot of trouble in the future. It may even lead to having a successful career as a ladies’ man. So it’s time that you wake up to the truth about the whole seduction vs. attraction thing.

What is attraction?

David De Angelo, one of the most prominent PUA expert, has this to say about attraction: attraction is not a choice.

This is very true. You will not have a say as to who you get attracted to. If you see a woman walking down the street and instantly felt attracted to her, without any reason, that goes to show that attraction is automatic. You just feel it. It has no reason or logic. This is the reason some guys are attracted to girls that you don’t find pretty. It’s because they didn’t choose to be attracted to that girl. They just felt it. It’s like Cupid just decided to hit him with an arrow.

Attraction is easy to create. To make girls attracted to you, all you have to do is work on your image. Improve the way you dress, talk, and behave. It’s 100% effort on your part. You work on your confidence and work your game. Once you’ve done those things, it’s up to the girls. There will be some who’d be smitten by the way you look and move. Some won’t. But the point is, these girls won’t have a choice. They will just feel the attraction and if you know how to spot who’s attracted to you, it can easily lead to seduction.

What is seduction?

Before discussing what seduction is, you have to take note that just because there is an attraction doesn’t mean the girl will want to sleep with you right away. It’s different. She can be attracted to you but not want to sleep with you, unless you can seduce her.

Unlike attraction, seduction is a choice made by both man and woman. It is a 2-way process. It is a game that the both of you must play. There are rules that you have to follow to effectively seduce a girl. The effort doesn’t just come from you. The other person has to contribute also, otherwise you won’t be able to gauge if you should continue with the seduction dance or not. Seduction will help create and raise the sexual tension between the two of you. And if you do it right, great things will happen.

Knowing the difference between seduction and attraction is a great tool that you can use to end up in bed with the woman you like. You must be able to differentiate the two to avoid making fatal mistakes that can ruin any chance you have with a woman.

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